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Forgiveness...
Forgiveness…
Forgiveness isn’t always about the other person. In reality, forgiveness more often than not is about ourselves. Forgiveness is for ourselves.
Through forgiveness, we can find freedom. Freedom from pain, from resentment, freedom from anger, etc.
Yes, it’s important to forgive people for the mistakes they make. We are all human and it’s part of life but what’s more important is that you forgive others for yourself.
Keys to forgiveness:
1. Know what forgiveness is and why it matters: It is not about finding excuses for the offending person’s behavior or pretending it didn’t happen.
2. Become “forgivingly fit”: To practice forgiveness, it helps if you have worked on positively changing your inner world by learning to be what I call “forgivingly fit.”
3. THIS ONE: 3. Address your inner plan it’s important to figure out who has hurt you and how. This may seem obvious, but not every action that causes you suffering is unjust.
These are just a few keys to start forgiving. The more you learned o forgive, the more you grow as a person. You deserve happiness and joy and the longer you hold onto that pain and suffering the longer it’s going to eat away at you, the more it’s going to poison your spirit.
Forgive them today.